Dating a guy who plays guitar dating a guy who plays guitar
No matter how you look at it, jealousy can make any relationship extremely toxic.With that, I have nothing but the utmost respect for any woman brave enough to date a musician.A few months ago I shared some rules for The Pivot, the transition from bar to bedroom.I forgot the most important rule of all: Never play your guitar for someone you’re trying to sleep with.
The other half is doing things like inviting her to studio sessions and shows, so she can see that life as an indie musician is not a Gucci Mane music video.
Sadly, the groupies are trying to weasel their way into the VIP at Gansevoort to get a glimpse at Trey Songz, not come to your show at some hole-in-the-wall joint. Let me further explain why actual dating as a musician is so hard.
My opinion is that most men are doing it totally wrong. Therefore, the one thing that I’m always lacking is time.
If it’s going to work though, there has to be lots of trust.
It’s certainly understandable for a woman to think that groupies are readily accessible at any given moment, but that’s just simply not the case (see above).
But it’s the element that there is the least amount of.